There’s a trend amongst guys who go out consistently night after night and don’t get ‘results’ consistently.
They get stuck in their head.
Logic kicks in and functioning as a socially lubricated human being ceases.
It’s time to Dumb down our logical brains…
Back when I was a kid…
Back when I was in grade 8, I was a popular little kiddie. Most of high school was ok for me. I had fun.
Grade 8; I had an awesome little group of friends and we dominated our classes.
I had a ‘thing’, where i kind of acted dumb a lot of the time. It used to get me MASSIVE amounts of attention.
A lot of it was a little negative, but on the whole it was positive.
Girls were in to me.
I had a flow happening. WE were the in crowd.
People wanted to know what we had been up to and what we were talking about when we started laughing in the middle of class.
I didn’t know why I got the attention I did, but I stood out when I acted dumb.
I was actually kind of just addicted to positive attention in year 8 yet couldn’t always handle the negative due to a weak frame/reality on life.
“What does this have to do with game and getting good?”
It’s a weird concept isn’t it? Being dumb to ‘get’ girls. I mean shouldn’t you be smart and alert to know when to dhv, spike her ioi or some other acronym you should be watching out for?
No.
Being ‘dumb’ is not really the key.
The act of being dumb WILL however completely disengage your logical brain. My frame is pretty solid now so success has been pretty phenomenal.
It’s the ‘slow’ kind of dumb as opposed to the stupid kind…
It helps things flow.
It helps you to slow everything down.
To slow your mind down.
To help you think in a way that isn’t clogged.
To help you become clear.
You can still BE smart. But you don’t have to think.
In fact the idea is to NOT think….
when you find yourself totally racing in “what should i do?” type of thoughts…
try and act DUMB… Almost shut down your brain… hit the kill switch.
Any thinking is bad thinking.
You’ll find this will breed a happy feeling and you’ll start actioning and doing things without even thinking about it.
Like, you’ll be just talking to a super hot girl, she’ll be rubbing against you and you wouldn’t have even ‘remembered’ to get anxiety… you’d just be in there.
This opens a MASSIVE gateway into an emotional world of glory fun times.
It brings you into a state of being TOTALLY in the now.
Similar reason as to why girls act dumb… however… again, it’s not about being ‘dumb’. It’s about opening the emotional lobe and setting it on full flow.
“What is ‘game’ like when you’re in this state?”
Living in the now enables you to get in this emotional flow and shut off logic.
It’s great.
Your voice becomes super slow yet you also become very articulated.
You can compliment the most complimented on things by guys and girls will be really appreciative you noticed…
“you have nice hair” or
“you have nice skin”
and the weird thing is you also point out all the things they want you to point out without realising it…
they just come into your head and you bring it up without thinking about it.
More importantly makes it 100x easier to give off a non-creepy sexual vibe if you want to.
There is no need to play any tactics, teasing games or ‘run’ any attraction ‘material’.
You are essentially carving AWAY insecurities, unnecessary thoughts and societal programming.
You’re going on instinct and a ‘self amusement’ kind of desire.
This is all inbuilt and WIRED into our gene code.
We have evolved to be able to figure this out.
We’ve collected enough junk to become a stunned mullet deep in contemplation (or constipation) of his next move.
‘Figuring out’ requires letting go.
Letting go of that Logic.
Being dumb, you become reaction-less.
You just don’t have the mind power nor care factor to react. Only what’s deemed necessary.
You’ll see girls tests on you and you’ll just look at them with a completely non-judgemental blank face.
They’ll try cover it up and act like nothing happened, but this just solidifies you’re a man of total non reactivity…
to bullshit.
“Won’t people think you’re dumb?”
No. If you have a strong reality, you will impose to people that you’re awesome. It’s not about being dumb, or stupid. So please don’t do that.
It’s about a gateway to disengage logic and start having fun.
“I find when I try it, I just act stupid and immature”
This is not about acting silly or weird. It’s about a state and cutting down on unnecessary thought processes. I’m associating ‘dumb’ with HIGHER thought processes, and LESS unnecessary mind clutter.
I am able to get there pretty easily by shutting off my logic.
Being slow and in state won’t even mean you’re not a man who takes care of his group.
You are.
You are also totally free to misinterpret and assume whatever you like.
You can just get to a stage where you’ll have nothing left to say but, “wanna make out?” and the next thing you’ll hear is, “well maybe if you sat a bit closer.”
“I need more examples”
I’ve been doing this on the dance floor with ridiculous fun. Combining it with picking up her hand and slowly whispering sweet and sensual compliments really slowly into her ear creating a chemical fusion of knowing it’s on!
Things like,
“you’re absolutely gorgeous/adorable.”
“I like your dress.”
“you smell fan tas tic.”
All said SLOWLY while holding her hands and as if that’s the only thing on my mind… no alterior motives what so ever.
No EGO detected.
Seconds next, make out ensues. There is no thought process going on in my head to do it. It’s all feeling and nimbus.
How do you get to this stage?
Just try acting dumb.
This might make people feel a bit vulnerable or whatever, I’m not sure.
I can’t quite explain it myself, but it’s kind of dumbing yourself down so you stop thinking logical stuff. It’s like playing a role, but you’re tricking yourself into acting from your REAL desires without holding anything back…
I have a friend who can be SUCH a logical guy that sometimes when he makes a joke, no one gets it because he’s so out of touch (feeling) with the group he’ll have to sit there explaining the semantics of how the joke is funny…
That’s holding on, you gotta let go.
“What made you come to these ideas?”
I wanted more and more to not have to think and then paralyse myself with thought… to be 100% confident when I saw a girl I liked….
It’s just a tool to open a gateway into nimbus state deluxe.
Final Observations
Be dumb Be pulled home by the girl.
It’s a womens fantasy to get with a guy who doesn’t really think in any other period than the ‘now’, who can keep a secret even if she tells other girls about them together, who is totally logic free and emotionally present and who isn’t immature or weird.
It’s a guys fantasy to be this guy while not having to know anything about girls….
This is one of the best metaphors I use to enter 100% natural game as I go about it.
Basically, there are no rules, no techniques, no bullshit. Just get yourself relaxed and carefree, make a girl feel sexy, have lots of fun, keep it cool and give her the option to flee the venue with you.
No bullshit tricks or games here. Failure is upon thee who tries. This is just about keeping it REAL, more real than you’ve ever been before because this is a new idea for you so you want to reach a part of you that you’ve never experienced.
Get out there and beware; crotch-grabs are a side effect.