Firstly, thank you for reading the blog, your comments and feedback are appreciated. The words in this text are to be taken in a subjugated manner. For they are only sign posts. Merely ideas and concepts that have helped me. The truth still lies beyond the text… In other words, the meaning and depth can only be found within yourself. This article and the whole website is a mere arrowhead pointing towards a vast ocean of presence and being found within who you are. This website is loosely a dating advice website so it will be geared along those lines. This is a way to look at life, not THE way, but a way…
Truths
Truth is a very broad term, you can have facts that are true, statements and truisms in a practical sense but this article is more for the truth in ones character, the truth under the social and societal blanket and the omniscient truth all around us…
Facts and Data
Facts and Data is true to the point that they are practical tools for and by humans. They are manufactured by us but these statements and truisms or even words are all they are, face value. Sure they can be accurate, but they are only signposts or a reference to reality.
Real truth, truth from within can not be manufactured. It’s something we feel and KNOW in the moment, it cannot be externally provided to us, but felt and known only through being and pure expression.
Labelling, Judgements and Preconceptions
All these points can get in the way of truth. Once you have labelled something, you have narrowly allowed it to divert from that label. Same thing goes with judging women as ‘bitches’ when they’re just sick and tired of the same type of guys hitting on them all night.
Judgements and labels can go as small as a tree being a tree, and a leaf being a leaf… If we use our mind power to keep these labels as a predominant figure in the forefront of our consciousness, we’ll miss the beauty of it all. Practical use of labels is fine and of course necessary, but if we let it get to a stage where we start labelling and judging social interactions, behaviour and surface level images of people in a negative light we’re only going to resist with it eventually and waste more energy.
Status in the club is a battle from within, resistance in action. Comparing yourself with others is also a judgement and label that happens a lot. Judging people also takes up a lot of internal energy, thought and concentration of the mind. This constant battle for social status when in the club is debilitating hence the introduction of alcohol where you start to loosen up and let the mind take a break from operating at an exhausting level of social class and position.
What is natural in this world of glamorous lights, pavement and buildings of intoxicating music and stimulation?
Only
You. In this moment right now.
Who you are is always real in the present moment.
Judging and labelling your past and future isn’t real. Only who you are and what you do now is the deepest truth of your existence.
Interactions
I can say or do what I like…
Literally.
I have no qualms about revealing anything because I’m already out there.
I’m a glazed layer of never ending clarity-honey forever being sucked at through a societal vortex of a yearning to see someone of truth and realness amongst the fake coco pops. I’m like honey spread over the bread of a starved civilisation of real substance and fibre. I’m a rare flavour of love that can flow through wherever I like… sex sometimes happens.
My words have a meaningless centre of definition. On the surface I say vulgar, crude and lewd words in statements but behind that I come from a place of truth, a core of who I am that goes beyond mere words that is laid out on the table. I exacerbate the point endlessly with random banter backed by a playful sense of quasi-inebriated love. I can pull it off because I care not of surface level definitions. I am a man who is honest with his truest depth. I know where I am coming from.
I plough and faun after girls with a casual nonchalant importance to the topic as I entertain not only them but mainly myself with a flamboyant swish in my character. I am on a constant flat line of ‘inner awesome’ regardless of what’s externally happening around me. Who I am is Avant-garde, random and unpredictable. I get away with it because I’m coming from a place of truth and love. Which can only ever be realised once the moment at hand is fully allowed to flow. I cherish the moment by expressing my cheerful state in an ‘anything goes’ form of flippancy and celebration of me with everyone invited to the party.
Real Freedom
Dissolving away all mind chatter, world labels and social judgements are we truly free to express ourselves. Freedom is essential to be able to express oneself. Freedom to say and do as we please is risky from the surface level. Murder could happen! Stealing, theft and racism… etc All these things stem from a weird place. A place of hatred, angst, scarcity, which is all a part of the ego trying to survive.
The world would have half as many laws if we all came from a place of love and abundance.
We’d be so high on the scale of consciousness there would be no traffic fines (we’d all be very conscious about what we’re doing) we’d be completely forgiving and there would be no criminal acts.
Laws in society are there for a reason. To keep the general ego and pain of the world in check.
Freedom of expression is a great gift to most of the world and to countries like Australia, USA, UK, etc etc… Unfortunately not yet all countries are this gifted with the awareness of it’s collective human potential for extreme peace, enlightenment and growth.
When Depth is Shallow and Shallowness is Deep
Have you ever been in a social group where the jokes are very hard to get and the pressure to be ‘cool’ is high? Well, I guess I have. A mere glance at the situation now and I’m attracted to self amuse in the fields of testy social status players.
Hard to get jokes and in jokes are there to reach a level of depth with ones character. I’ve often noticed ‘in’ people to be ‘in’ due to a serious grasp on the depth of who we are… those outcast, frustrated with the levels some people run on accuse them of being shallow when it’s just a matter of those people not being in touch with others…
Things don’t always need to be verbalised to be felt. Some people are left in the dust when it comes to social engagement. These ‘shallow sounding yet hard to get jokes’ are masked as shallow surface level observations and banter but it reveals what level people are on in a completely non-verbal way.
For example: Nervous entertaining monkey man approaches a cool demure sassy woman at the bar. He is trying to be funny but the jokes are running dry. He walks away and classifies her personality as a ‘bitch’ because she said something that her friends laughed at and monkey man doesn’t get it. In reality, he’s operating on a level that is not connecting with ANY female. Eye-coding to make an escape is another obvious sub-communication which is used by both sexes to flee from their pursuers.
All women (well most) are connected much closer to the natural world than men.
Women in general can sense the depth of a man, the truth of his character, the realness of who he is within seconds. I like that.
Deep End of the shallow pool
Some people who are caught up in ‘image’ and social drama storms get depressed and can get into extreme cases of suffering, sometimes resulting in suicide. The mind runs through all available avenues yet it sees no escape, not let up; an unrelenting wall of dead ends.
These people are going deep, but they’re in the wrong pool, they’re without the truth.
The truth being that who they are is an OCEAN deep of character and presence, not just a pool.
Going DEEP into trivial issues such as image or what type of car you drive etc… is looking for a means to an end rather than focusing on the process that brings the character out in you.
The skills to surrender and let go are far often neglected in society. Not ‘surrender’ as in to give up, but ‘surrender’ as in to let go. Surrender yourself to the moment. To be without the content of the mind.
To be able to accept what is.
Trusting in the higher mind. Knowing that whatever comes my way is going to be external to who I am. I’m enthusiastic about the unknown. Bring it on. Everything we experience is just another view point of the same moment we always experience. There’s also always a choice in what we feel and where we choose to ‘swim’ or care.
Death
Most people who ARE shallow ignore the concept of death, like it’s something they should be afraid of thinking about. It is a natural progression of life. You are born, you live a life and die at some stage…
Death is never going to happen and in a different sense, it already HAS happened. Once you accept you are going to die are you therefore free to do nearly anything.
Fear can always be turned around into an enthusiasm for the moment at hand.
What is Truth?
Truth is you.
The deepest form of you.
What you do and who you are in the moment at hand is true. 100% true. It’s also the only thing that is ever constant. FULL constant, there is not a point in time where the moment stopped or was delayed, it’s forever been and forever will stay. The moment at hand.
Who you are literally cannot be defined. Truth cannot be 100% defined as well.
It can only be felt from within.
You can feel it between each word. The gaps and stillness of being in each sentence. The acknowledgement of, to notice, to listen to the nothingness, the underlying presence in everything that is… is you beaming forth.
Your being is real and it has no label.
It is really another realm, beyond manifested bodies of ‘earthly material’. To be more in touch with it is to be more in touch with the truth, with who you are and with the deepest truth of your own existence.
Following who you are, following your truth, following your core is following your joy and enthusiasm. The excitement you get from your imagination, from the conceived ideas you have is a pointer in the direction of who you really are…
The Blind Fold of Truth
When you allow yourself to succumb to an External Authority you then in a way put a blind fold over who you are… denying yourself from acting on your own imagination and desires.
A lot of people get places with authority. To wake up from it and be lawless is rather attractive for women with men, even vice versa. However, again, laws wouldn’t be so necessary if we’re all coming from the core of who we are which is a default of abundance, love and truth.
Another form of External Authority people allow into their lives is TV. Regardless of how educational it CAN be you are still a spectator rather than a player, so it’s a good idea to choose carefully what you watch on TV.
A more subtle form is your own body. Realise that your body can play a part on what’s really happening, the urges you have, the addictions your feed your body and the different stimulations you provide it can affect your awareness and the way you view the world.
Common Sense Prevails
Imagine a world of EXTREME common sense. We all have within us a sense of being, we all have access to love and abundance, it is only that we change our view of the world painted with fear and hate that we can choose to look with appreciation and enjoyment. Common Sense is the truth within all of us.
Each interaction we have has a form of common sense.
When it comes to dating and trying to impress women or men, common sense generally gets thrown out the window and that little inner ‘mind chatter’ starts talking inside our heads saying things that we think the other person might like to hear, instead of just appreciating them for who they are…
Common Sense vs. Anti-Logic and the Higher Mind
Realise that common sense and anti-logic are more often than not the VERY same thing.
Using the higher mind, all Anti-logical confusion in the world suddenly becomes common sense. We are trained in society to work things out in the physical world with our brains being in control of everything. When it comes to social engagement and especially attraction between sexes, the logic of it all gets empirically obscure. To the physical-logical brain, a lot of the time nothing makes sense in this arena.
We all have a higher mind that doesn’t use words to operate.
It is the place that allows things to naturally flow. It encapsulates everything you know into the moment right now and allows you to place a faith in yourself that allows you to do exactly what you NEED to do in the moment without HAVING to think about it.
A favourite analogy people use to gain more access to the higher mind is that the higher mind is the lookout man at the top of the mountain and your physical brain is the man walking through the valley at the bottom. When they are both working in harmony together you are your FULL self, your FULL character being guided by the faith of knowing that whatever comes to me, whatever happens, I can still be myself and enjoy/tackle whatever comes next.
What women want
To recognise who they are in the moment that exists.
Relates back to common sense. That was easy. That’s a definition anyway. This could be that there is someone who is looking for sex straight up. Or perhaps she is in a state that is not quite there yet… depending on what YOUR intentions are and how clear you are to YOURSELF about them determines this more than anything.
At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what anyone wants except yourself and are you following that?
When it comes to being universally attractive it is achievable through everyone. Everyone in the world has the ability to connect with another person as who we are UNDERNEATH EVERYTHING is actually the same.
We are all one in the same. We are all one.
How we choose to express ourselves is what makes us unique and every one of us different.
With the concept that we are ALL one, we can really start to eliminate a lot of the problems in the world when we ALL start taking responsibility for everyone’s well being.
Circumstances don’t matter, ONLY your state of being matters!
You have the ability to affect everything with your own internal state.
Now if you find that your state is affecting how you feel and in turn your current circumstances, it is because of what you believe is true at that moment in time. Positive or Negative.
Asking yourself questions helps.
“What must be true to make me feel bad about what just happened?” Whatever the answer is, is a belief in your life. A definition on how you perceive the world.
To change your state from a negative feeling to a positive feeling is a matter of asking oneself what must be true to make me feel the way I feel.
External reality does not affect the way you feel. You MUST believe something to be true before it affects the way you feel. For example, if one were to say “Brunettes are born with an evil gene and only blonde people are pure at heart”, I wouldn’t feel ANYTHING because I don’t believe that to be true in the slightest. Someone who might believe that may feel high and mighty if they were a blonde, or sad and hurt if they were a brunette.
Once you let go of definitions that define how you should live your life, you start to feel lighter, more open to things happening that you personally prefer and find attractive.
Definitions and beliefs in life that are not yours are HEAVY like baggage, beliefs and definitions that are yours are light that allow your true personality and character to beam forth.
It’s important to be AWARE of these beliefs in life due to the colour they paint your perception of the world.
Abundance and Trusting and Accepting what is…
I’ve found that ALL abundance is, is the ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it. The FORMS of abundance are very different.
Abundance of women, money…
Abundance of LACK…
Whatever has the LEAST amount of resistance to who you are, you will attract.
A newbie guy who hasn’t been into a club before tries going up to a woman he finds super donk attractive… What is happening inside of him? FULL ON RESISTANCE. What’s happening on the outside? Rejections…
An Internal CHURN of a conflict between the higher mind and the physical mind. A belief getting in the way of what REALLY excites him… because what REALLY excites him deep down, is who he is, it’s his REAL character and personality.
The idea is to FULLY accept whatever part of the process is happening, whether it be positive or negative, for the REASON of continuing along the path of putting you in touch with MORE of who you are; your inner joy and enthusiasm.
Full realisation of this is that you will become completely excited about WHATEVER the process has to show you. This will only speed up the process, expand who you are and increase your drive to follow your passion.
You will NEVER create more impact than you already have by just existing
Just by the fact that you EXIST, means you are creating ALL the impact you need in the world.
The fact that you exist is PURE value and love. There is no need to do ANY more but just be…
All interactions then have no hidden agenda. They are occurring for the pure appreciation of learning something new, connecting with new facets of yourself and plain old self-amusement.
This piece of knowledge by itself is soothing. You automatically put yourself out there and after a while, putting yourself out there becomes habit and it’s like you’re turning off part of your brain. Like a switch. Underneath it’s really turning on another part. The higher mind. I assigned this the “I no longer care what people or I think” switch. I only care about stimulating and appreciating the current interaction at hand. My mind chatter stops and I start being, doing and actioning what I really want to do.
Knowing you strive for the truth, gives you an inner confidence… you really DON’T care what people think, you don’t care about ‘coolness’ or anything trivial because the truth prevails above all.
Life is Meaningless
Life has no meaning. You have free will to assign whatever meaning you wish. This also goes back to judging and labelling. Leaving this unlabelled and open, you allow it to become whatever you like…
Conclusion
There is no part of your universe that you don’t own. Everything is yours. Let your own imagination and excitement be your guide. Whatever excites you, act on it and trust that you will have all the support and abundance with you at all times. Carry truth with you at all times as the deepest truth of your existence is you.
Bringing and being the Truth isn’t about saying accurate and statistically correct words, it’s about being your CORE self, putting who you are out on the table, allowing your joy and enthusiasm to guide you and being aware of who you are in any moment…
Bring the Truth
Let the truth be known…
“We all have a higher mind that doesn’t use words to operate.”
The subconscious, Infinite Intelligence, whatever you want to call it, it knows all that there is to know. The store of all knowledge that ever was and ever will be can be tapped into by ourselves when we learn to be quiet and let the higher mind express itself.
Thanks for providing such a thorough, thought=provoking post.
Ryan
“At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what anyone wants except yourself and are you following that?”
True that
Love it Mark.
Love the fun and games in Cloudland too.
Who are “You”?
“You” are who you are.
When “You” truly understand this
“You” will be free to learn to be more.
Three cheers to “You”!!
HTL